fantastic weekend!!!!!

Finally there comes an exciting moment in life....after a really long time......!!!!...my boyfriend's visit to my place!!!

I had such a wonderful tym after so long! We ate, slept, chatted d whole weekend. It was all about chilling out and having fun.....The best part was my roommates got along with him too!!!.....

One of my roomies had a photoshoot assignment to complete but it was all fun as evyone got involved in it smhw, my bf modelling, trying out wacky make-up and hairdos.....it was all partyyy!!!

Although i did hav sm market sourcing to finish in d weekend, it was handled by my dearest pals who let me be with my love!!!....thank you girls!!!....

But now that he has gone back, i  m all full of mixed feelings....although there is tension fr d assignments to b completed, i wish this positive energy in me rite now, help me go through them smilingly...:)

Mumbai darshan and Shopping with Pa, Ma n Bro!!!!

From 5th October 2011 to 11th October 2011, it was like a mini-break from college, as I was out in the streets of Mumbai with my family, who were here for there Durga Puja vacation!!!

It was fun roaming around in taxis, autos and of course local trains all over the city with them. It was my mom and brother's first trip to Mumbai.

The first outing was Elephanta Caves. We had to catch a ferry from the Gateway of India to reach there. 

While returning, we were stuck in a heavy downpour and high tides right in the middle the sea. It was the time for sunset, so the water and the sky was dark; plus the sound of thunder. We were all scared, especially mom!!!

There were three life boats guiding us. One of the sailors was busy pumping the water out of the motor.

All I was wishing for at that time was to see the Taj hotel or the Gateway of India to assure myself that we are almost near the shore!!!

Finally I did see the Gateway of India (and the rain also stopped) and not only me but everyone in the ferry took a deep breath!!! It was one of the scariest adventure ever to happen to me.

After that day, the rest of the trip was smooth and chilled-out. We did a lot of shopping, had great drives around the city!!!

Now, I'm back to the world of college assignments!!! Just waiting for 23rd October---the day I'm leaving for my hometown for the Diwali vacations.

Love for Good.....not for Compromise...

I am so stucked regarding a particular college assignment that I need to do for Monday. I thought of starting today but didnt. Laziness being the only reason.

But i feel m sort of "glowing" since morning. And the reason being my "guy". Starting the day, hearing his  voice over the phone lifts up my spirits like nothing else. 

Me and my gal pals were just now watching Sex and the City: the movie-part 1. And I realised that I often feel like Charlotte. My life seems too perfect when I see good people suffer. I am blessed with a good boyfriend who makes my life better, easy and fun. But some really good friends of mine who are lovely, pretty, sweet and nice human-beings have/had pathetic boys in their life who never deserved the love and loyalty they are getting/got. I still am happy for the ones who broke up and moved on for good but i feel really sad and also angry for the ones who are still trying to work it out without much effort being shown from the other side. They are just not being able to quit and I fear if they start believing that compromising should always be on a girl's part.

Another thing that really bothers me is when a girl is labelled "slut", "unfaithful", "bitch", etc when she leaves her boyfriend. Why do people judge so quickly? I know, sometimes girls/boys just play around with their partners and uses them and dump them. But that's not the truth in all cases. Sometimes a girl has to come forward and quit because she's not happy with a particular guy. I mean if she's not happy, what do you expect? To act that she's perfectly happy (and then she's termed a "liar"), and just be with someone because she said "I love you" once and maybe even got physical. Sometimes things just don't work out well after you enter into a relationship and start knowing the person better. 

One thing I wish my friends with "undeserving" partners should learn is to avoid such hypocrisy and stop thinking about what will others say.  

2 Songs!!!!

1. Bubbly by Colbie Caillat

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AWGqoCNbsvM&ob=av2e

2. Hate that I love you by Rihanna

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KMOOr7GEkj8&ob=av3e

THREE FILMS!!!!

For someone who can watch movies non-stop the whole day, choosing 3 is a though call. Extremely though!!!... Still, i am trying...to choose. Maybe, in a week it can change, but as of now the top 3 are:

1. A Walk to Remember

"It all comes down to who's by your side"
My favourite romantic movie of all time. Mandy Moore's wonderful and so is Shane West. Jamie and Landon's love seems to be the perfect love of all times. Everything about this movie-the plot, characters, songs, etc touches your heart.    











2. Jab We Met
Kareena Kapoor as the talkative, lively "Geet" is simply adorable. It's one of the best movies of the Hindi Film Industry. Perfect (and very original) story, superb direction and dialogues by Imtiaz Ali, amazing characters, foot-tapping music and  unforgettable scenes(my favourite is the "hotel decent" scene).

3. 50 First Dates

Adam Sandler and Drew Barrymore are a perfect on-screen couple. Something as serious as amnesia was shown so light-heartedly that it makes one feel that life and love is not that difficult if you know how to live it. This movie has a feel-good factor for which I can never get bored watching it.

4 BOOKS

1. THE LAWS OF THE SPIRIT WORLD by KHORSHED BHAVNAGRI (this book changed my life for better)



2. MANY LIVES MANY MASTERS by DR. BRIAN WEISS (an interesting true story which relates to the facts stated in "the laws of the spirit world") 



3. 2 STATES by CHETAN BHAGAT (a witty tale about Bhagat's inter-state love marriage...that made me go ROFL)



4. TELL ME YOUR DREAMS by SIDNEY SHELDON (a very dark yet the most interesting tale by Sheldon)
  

Five Foods!!!!

After a break of 5 days.....i am back!!!
So, here it goes!!!


1. Rice-dal and Alu Pitika(mashed potato with a little mustard oil, salt, onion and green chillies).

2. Chocolates...(should be dark.....in any form - bars, cakes, ice-creams,etc)

3. Momos...(my fav fast-food...n the best part is that, its not unhealthy!!!...i like non-veg momos d best)

4. Corn...(roast it...boil it...add it anywhere....m up for it!!!)

5. Cold-coffee...(my fav drink)

6 PLACES...!!!!!

1. SPAIN

2. ITALY

3. AUSTRALIA
















4. MIAMI

5. NEW YORK













6. SWITZERLAND

P.S. The list definitely doesn't end here. Afteral, there are so many beautiful places in the world and I wanna have a glimpse of them all.

7 Wants!!!!

1. A happy life with good relationships with family, friends and boyfriend...(touchwood...m blessed...have adorable people in my life who makes it beautiful and I want it to be the same).
2. A satisfying Job that is enjoyable!!!
3. I wanna travel...abroad....to beautiful places like Spain, Switzerland, Miami, etc.
4. I wanna learn salsa.
5. I want to own pretty dresses....(i like dresses but don't have a really good and big collection, as yet)!
6. I want to try under-water diving!!!

7. I want to be better at time-management.

8 FEARS!!!!

1. Losing my loved ones.(I don't fear death much....but its very difficult to imagine a life without my family and loved ones)
2. Failure in Love.(I fear a failed relationship with my boyfriend, because i am so deeply in love)
3. Depression. (Getting into depression can ruin a life like nothing else)
4. Violence( Riots, Murders, Rapes, War, etc)
5. Breaking of Trust (especially by people I really love)
6. Snakes and Spiders
7. Darkness (when alone)
8. Suffocation

9 LOVES...!!!!

1. I love to watch movies. (n watch them very seriously with great concentration and passion..!!!!!)
2. I love music. (...anytime....anywhere)
3. I love to design (mostly apparel and prints)
4. I love cooking (my mom and grandmom won't believe this as I don't cook at home. I've started after i got out of home for studies and love it since then.)
5. I love to read. (mysteries or love stories....fictions or true stories...anything good enough to keep me engaged)
6. I love chocolates....in any form...!!!
7. I love the smell of coffee. When it's about drinking I prefer cold coffee-my favourite drink.
8. I love nail paints.
9. I love beaches.


P.S. I love to dance....but somehow, of late...I have lost in touch with it......(blame it on my rather busy student life, blame it on my small room with hardly any foot space, blame it on my shyness of not being able to dance anywhere). I promise myself to put on my dancing shoes, soon...:)

10 secrets....!!!!!

1. I want to get drunk someday.....with my boyfriend....to check how "High" I can actually get...;)
2. I want to own a house with a really nice, spacious, sexy Kitchen!!!...ya right..Kitchen....i have a dream kitchen in my mind.
3. I am not at all brand conscious or fashion conscious (although I will soon belong to the fashion and apparel industry).
4. I am happy shopping in the streets and don't mind compromising about quality when it comes to clothes.....but i will never compromise on two things-- Cosmetics and Lingerie!!!
5. I say often that I am straight-forward but many a times I end up faking a sweet smile or wishing sweetly or even talking sweetly to people I can't be sweet to from within....And I hate that about myself..!!!
6. I am not a big liar.....but when required...I can convince people with a lie!
7. I am a die-hard romantic....and I have no problem with the so-called "public display of affection"!!!
8. I imagine myself as the characters of almost every movie I watch....Movies for me are a way of escape and definitely my favourite pastime!!!
9. I Don't want to be famous.......'coz privacy is very important for me to lead a peaceful life.
10. I want to lead a star's life for a month or so, just to see what it takes to be a Star. 

I found this in a blog called  Hello! Happiness that i've been following recently......

longing for a holiday......

missed my summer vacation this year for an internship.....which was....errrr....not that pleasant...but rather way to tiring..........n now again missed out on a weekend preparing a document on the internship.

all i'm dreaming of now is to go on a trip(preferably a road trip) to somewhere really far like spain, hawaii.............

underwater diving is a dream....i hope to fulfill it soon.

my last great holiday was in Gokarna in Karnataka. its was beautiful....with d lovely clear beaches, amazing sun and sand.......n of course my fun group of friends........

that was a time when i was not even a bit worried about college, assignments, submissions.....

I want that time back....a time wen i can just be me and enjoy doing nothing but enjoying life to the fullest.......

Funnily, i was (and am still) so proud of that horrible tanning......it was for me..like a proof that i had a great time. I wish...i wish....for the next big holiday....soon!!!.....:D.....n of course....underwater diving!!!!..:D 

on...off...up...down......That's MY kinda love!!!

i have been in a relationship with this boy for the last three and a half years.........
n its exactly like what Ryan Gosling tells Rachel McAdams in the movie The Notebook.---"Well, that's what we do! We fight! You tell me when I'm being an arrogant son of a bitch and I tell you when you're being a pain in the ass, which you are, 99% of the time. I'm not afraid to hurt your feelings. You have like a two second rebound rate, then you're back doing the next pain-in-the-ass thing.So it's not gonna be easy. It's gonna be really hard, and we're gonna have to work at this every day. But I wanna do that because I want you."


In less than 24 hrs, we had 2 long sessions of "sweet talk turned to rude talk turned to anger turned to fight turned to sorry turned to sweet talk" The first one in the morning over the phone and the second one at night towards the end of Skypeing.
n the day ends with ".......I will not stop loving you.....:P....." 
Now this brings out my best smile.

It has always been like this....we fight for absolutely rubbish reasons....both equally at fault. But the good part is 99% of times i get to sleep with a smile on. We work it out everyday effortlessly because we both have one thing in common and that is "we want each other and are crazily in love with each other".


He annoys me, makes me angry.....but nobody can make me smile with delight like he can. And he does that without any effort. 


I am lucky to have him. He is one of the rare few boys, who is a perfect blend of love, honesty and fun. Not the type who will take you out for dates and movies in no time (we didnt go out on a date till now!!!) but someone who has his own dictionary of humorous romance. 


My brother loves him and so does all my girl pals. And i am sure in no time mom-dad will be at the top of the world when they'll know about my chosen one!!!


TOUCHWOOD!!!!!!!.....My heart says its gonna be infact more blissful forever....:) Thank you God for HIM!!!!

starting to blog

writing my heart out in a diary was always a way to clear my head....forget the difficulties.........n live life normally.....n "luckily" happily..:)......so m trying blogging......from now!!!