Love for Good.....not for Compromise...

I am so stucked regarding a particular college assignment that I need to do for Monday. I thought of starting today but didnt. Laziness being the only reason.

But i feel m sort of "glowing" since morning. And the reason being my "guy". Starting the day, hearing his  voice over the phone lifts up my spirits like nothing else. 

Me and my gal pals were just now watching Sex and the City: the movie-part 1. And I realised that I often feel like Charlotte. My life seems too perfect when I see good people suffer. I am blessed with a good boyfriend who makes my life better, easy and fun. But some really good friends of mine who are lovely, pretty, sweet and nice human-beings have/had pathetic boys in their life who never deserved the love and loyalty they are getting/got. I still am happy for the ones who broke up and moved on for good but i feel really sad and also angry for the ones who are still trying to work it out without much effort being shown from the other side. They are just not being able to quit and I fear if they start believing that compromising should always be on a girl's part.

Another thing that really bothers me is when a girl is labelled "slut", "unfaithful", "bitch", etc when she leaves her boyfriend. Why do people judge so quickly? I know, sometimes girls/boys just play around with their partners and uses them and dump them. But that's not the truth in all cases. Sometimes a girl has to come forward and quit because she's not happy with a particular guy. I mean if she's not happy, what do you expect? To act that she's perfectly happy (and then she's termed a "liar"), and just be with someone because she said "I love you" once and maybe even got physical. Sometimes things just don't work out well after you enter into a relationship and start knowing the person better. 

One thing I wish my friends with "undeserving" partners should learn is to avoid such hypocrisy and stop thinking about what will others say.